Actually it was like that with my daughter. We tried for 12 months, and I was doing ovulation tests every month and we'd have sex the three days that I was supposedly ovulating, and nothing was happening, and we finally gave up and started enjoying life and didn't consider my ovulation times and I got pregnant. But, by the time, I had really given up on the idea of having a second child. P.S. I'm not saying you can stop thinking about wanting to have kids. It's nearly impossible. 😊