I know how easily one can fall into the trap of unworthiness even without the accusations from the church. It's just the fact that we realize our impossibility to compare to, or fully understand God.

I think I stopped blaming myself for this and that when I realized that God feels not only fatherly love but obligation to us as well. 'They didn't want to be created. I created them. So I must do everything for them.'

Just the way we feel about our kids. 😊